The phenomenon called 'side chick'

Good evening dear SUB readers.
Today, I decided to write on this topic after hearing a very sad story about a married women. Though it's not the first time I'm hearing such, it's just that, this particular woman's story really touched me in a
peculiar way.
Honestly, I always feel sad when I hear heart breaking, disgusting and pathetic accounts on women snatching other men in other to be relevant.

Seriously are 'they' some kind of trophy to be worn by hook or crook? Some even brag about it. This trend is gradually becoming a school, where ladies go to acquire dexterity, knowledge on how to smartly date married men. Some even go diabolical. This unfortunate act is often inspired by either lust for money, social status, to spite other women, jealousy

 and envy, sexual gratification etc How I wish women can channel this energy into something more productive.What ever the reason may be, it is wrong! Women being terrible to other women for the sake of their male partner isn't anything new. Infact, it's like an age long tradition. But as the clock ticks it's becoming irritating and unflattering. 

Dear Women, our lives shouldn't be contingent on the devaluing of someone else's . And we should hold the people who have betrayed their commitment to us accountable instead of causing more mayhem by openly disgracing ourselves which involves physical
alternation while the main perpetrator cools down and maintain his reputation.The truth is that, there will be no side chick without cheating partners. And there will be no cheating partners without 'yes ladies' 

Our relationship titles shouldn't be built around disrespecting other women. And this certainly shouldn't make us feel like someone else that our partner is involved with is any better or worse than us.
Being a home wrecker is neither an achievement nor something to be proud of. Say no to married men!

Stanisha Ugwuayi